Sign Up
Profiles.xxx - The Free Adult Sex Chat and Social Network - Meet Adults in your local area and all over the world for chat, dating and sex!

Kink 101 part 3 'safewords and limits'

The universal 'Safewords' are RED for Stop, YELLOW for Caution, and Green is sometimes used for the submissive's plea for more. All safewords should be discussed along with all 'Limtis' PRIOR to PLAY! Limits are the structure, the backbone of all types of kink and erotic play, so don't forget to discuss them! Going over limits is also a good way to find out more about likes and curiosities, as well. Nothing like saying, "Name one limit and one like," to start a good game of flirtation about the dirty little things that traipse through your mind! Also, understand the difference between a 'Hard Limit' and a 'Soft Limit'. Hard limits are thing like, "I refuse to participate in any play involving 'scat'." Soft limits are things like, "I refuse to play on cam but might think about it if we got to know each other better." Find these things out about your partner and Safewords may never be uttered! HOWEVER...NEVER feel ashamed or afraid to safeword! Don't just go through with something you hate and then run away to never play again... Don't just 'x' out of play and then try to come back later to look for someone else to play with... Safeword and TALK about what happend to make you so uncomfortable! Communication is the KEY to a healthy HAPPY sexual and/or emotional partnership! Open up more than those succulent thighs and discuss your fears AND your fantasies! ^.~