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People on adult sites vs IRL?

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* I've only been able to use adult sites for 2 years (due to my age) and this is the only one I've used during those 2 years - therefore these are mainly views based on this site and not on adult sites as a whole.


I feel people here (within reason) should be allowed to exercise fetishes as they see fit more-so than they would with an actual real life partner. I don't dispute that. For example I find scat utterly disgusting and unhygienic - I still discourage it but it's not something I'd judge someone for. I like having whipped cream licked from my thighs and strawberries eating from the lips of my pussy, some find that equally disgusting (I do shower thoroughly before I actually allow for that).

What I don't understand is just how pushy and aggressive a MAJORITY of males are online (It's obviously not all, and it pisses me off when people imply it's all. There are some really sweet down-to-earth guys that I would probably feel safe meeting and to be honest, I would probably also fuck their brains out).

The masses of cock photos, the offers of "I cum for you on cam bb". Mutual masturbation is something I can understand (ie actual cam sex although I will never do it because I find it incredibly hard to orgasm despite part of my medical condition being able to send me into sexual overdrive - I literally have built-in woman-viagara). Or when they just go balls deep (metaphorically speaking) and PM what they'd like to do to me or how they'd want to bend me over and screw me until bleed. Seriously; would you really approach someone like that in person, even at a fucking swingers bar and talk to them like that? I wouldn't even approach a pornstar on fanday like that. It's funny - pornstars are filthy on camera and say the dirtiest things even bordering on taboo a lot of the time. Yet if someone spoke to them like that off camera they're utterly disgusted (I think Lexi Belle is an example of someone who behaves like this - she has regular sex with fans yet at one point someone told her at a signing what they'd like to do with her and she had them thrown out)

And if you would do that online but not in person, what makes you think any self-respecting female would want to be approached to like that? Don't confuse this with me saying I wouldn't liked to be talk dirty too. I play the innocence game 90% of the time I'm on this site but my mind can be filthier than a rat-filled sewer once you've built up that kind of relationship with me. ONCE you've built it up. I admit, I've had the odd time at a bar, a little off my face (this is why I no longer drink apart from special occasions); a sweet talking Latino within 15 minutes has called on me, got my number, got a peek under my dress and in the next 15 minutes we'd ran out into the beach and found a secluded patch hidden by a tall wall.


I would personally love to meet some of the Colorado/FL members on this site, but the way I get approached I wouldn't feel safe doing so even in a public place. Because I know first chance you get to fuck it up - you'll take it.


Review/rant #overandout