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50 Things that will make a slave feel Owned <3



One of the main factors, in feeling truly Owned is to be constantly reminded throughout the day of a Master's control. These reminders can be subtle or really obtrusive. The more often a slave is reminded of his or her submission, the deeper it becomes -- and the more fulfilling. So here are some things you can do to make Your slave feel Owned. If you are unwilling to take the time to enforce the rules you make, then there may as well be no rules at all. There is nothing in the world that will make a slave feel less loved than to have a Master who ignores his or her transgressions and does not exert their dominance..and I personally would welcome every one of these from my Master~


1.Have her wear slave bells. The constant soft jingling of the bells is soothing and a certain reminder of her submission.

2.When she has broken a rule, talk to her as you punish and make her speak in detail about why what she did was wrong.

3.A beautiful, special collar will make any slave joyous. Take the time to select the right one, and have her wear it as often as possible.

4.Give her anklets and tell her she must wear one of them every day, no excuses.

5.Whenever possible, have her kneel before you and ask to accompany you upon the furniture.

6.Whenever possible, have her display herself whenever you come into the room -- legs spread, shirt unbuttoned. No matter what position you take, she is to be sure your view is unobstructed

7.When around the kids or vanilla friends/family, make sure she has an alternative title for you besides Master such as "my love" etc.

8.Use her sexually in a rough, selfish way when you feel like it, interrupting whatever she was doing. (Yes, please!!!! I personally LOVE this one!!)

9.Have her crawl to bed each night.

10.After punishment, have her cuddle on your lap and thank you for loving her enough to correct him.

11.Get her tattooed (Your choice of art and location).

12.Get her pierced (or preferably if You are trained, do it Yourself).

13.Get her branded.

14.Respect, but push his limits.

15.Ask her each night what she did that day that You would not have approved of. This gets her in the habit of being completely honest, and also makes her conscious of the things she could do better each day.

16.Teach her exactly how You want her to kneel, and demand perfection.

17.Reward her by allowing her to please You sexually.

18.Give her a writing assignment

19.Have her keep a diary of her journey into submission.

20.Some evenings, keep her on a leash and take her with You no matter what You do....even if You do not speak to her or include her in Your activities.

21.Reward her by giving her delicious pleasure.

22.On occasion, share her.

23.Make her wear a butt-plug under her clothes whenever she goes out alone.

24.Master the art of the meaningful piercing stare.

25.Give her reading assignments.

26.Test her on the reading assignments, to make sure she learned the appropriate lessons from each.

27.Make it her responsibility to put the toys away after play and punishment, and to keep them clean and neat.

28.Call her your slut, your pet, etc.

29.Have her make a list of the 10 things that make him the most self-conscious, uncomfortable or embarrassed.

30.Work with her, having her do the things on the list, so that she conquers those fears and hesitations.

31.Praise her dedication when she has pleased you well.

32.Some days allow her no clothing whatsoever.

33.Deny her play.

34.Deny her orgasm. Give her sex, but she can't cum.

35.Tell her one morning that she must cum for you 15 times that day, and then write about the day.

36.Spend time training her how to move to please You.

37.Always flog/cane/spank her after completion of a task, even if it was satisfactory. A well spanked slave is a happy slave.

38.Deny her any D/s at all for a week, letting her do just as she pleases, not allowing her to serve you in any way, no punishment, no instruction, no play, banning titles of respect, etc. This will shame her and certainly make her strive to please you when it is over and she is in her place again.

39.Defend her honor to those who would disrespect your prized possession.

40.Pet her often.

41.Teach her things, expand her knowledge.

42.Lead her with a loving fist in her hair.

43.Teach her patience.

44.Have her be perfectly still and quiet while you bring her extreme pleasure. When she moves or makes a sound punish her then return to the pleasure.

45.When possible, have her cook and serve your dinner wearing nothing but a collar.

46.Don't be afraid to bring her to tears, for they are yours as well.

47.Master's word is the last word.

48.Take the time to talk to her, learn her fears, her dreams and fantasies. Use your knowledge.

49.Specify exactly how she will address you in private and in public.

50.If you are willing to correct her each time she forgets until it is a habit, have her refer to herself as "this slave" or "this girl" etc.