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the truth about dominant men .

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Hi kinky girls so how can you tell the real man your chatting to is a real man.

Well first off he will be very interested in your experience level your boundaries .

He will not tell you what's going to happen he will ask you what you like and  how you like it.
Or he will write a few lines and then ask you if you find them a turn on or not.

He will test you though because he's not interested in girls who want to pleasure men. only in submissive kinky girls who want to be the center of  attention for there sexual gratification .

Why will he be asking you your preferences or trying to work then out ..?

well its easy he will be working out how to tailor the sexual encounter he's hoping to have with you to your needs .

You see true real men doms as so many of you like to call them are more interested in the sexual pleasure of there subs than they are there own .

Its that simple there sexuality works like this they like exploring the sexual limits of women not there own sexual limits .

A dominant man will never do or demand anything from a sub that didn't turn her on because doing so would go against his own sexual needs which is to turn her on to be the best lover he can possible be.

Real dominant men want to see how far they can push a subs sexual gratification through the use of pain if that's to her tastes or through the use of pleasure alone.

If a true dominant man spanks your ass because it turns you on.
its not the act of spanking that is turning him on its the effect of the spanking on his sub and her reaction to it that is turning him on.

That statement holds true to any other pain based sexual play he will only do it because his sub is turn on by the pleasure pain contrast which in turn will turn him on.

Think about that statement kinky girls a real dominant man gets his sexual kicks out of the fact his actions are turning on a submissive kinky girl.

A true dominant gets turned on by the fact his actions turn a submissive kinky girl on .

sex for a true dominant man is not about his needs but his subs needs because only if she is turned on will he be turned on.

He's not interested in sex for his gratification because his gratification is tied to the gratification of his sub or partner .

Real dominant men are unlike any guy you have ever known sexually .

they will never surrender there orgasm over to you like normal guys who want you to sexually pleasure them  and your sexual pleasure is a after thought a by product of them getting there sexual gratification .

No kinky girls sex to a dominant man is all about the female orgasm .

If you ever get the pleasure of being with a true dominant man you will soon realise this is the truth as you and your body will be the center of attention for nearly all the sexual encounter .

A real dominant man has no interested in what sexual act your going to perform on him for his sexual gratification its all about what sexual act he's going to perform on you for your sexual gratification because that's what turns him on that is his kink .

That is the truth about guys who are dominant .

There women lovers who get there sexual kick out of pleasuring women they get no kick out of allowing a women to pleasure them unlike normal guys .

How do I know this because I am one such guy and I only wish this site had a feed back page as it would prove what I've said in this diary as being the absolute truth about true dominant men.

which in turn may save real submissive kinky girls or those looking to explore that side of there sexuality from falling foul of so called dominant guys who clearly are not truly dominant men.

Remember kinky girls I write erotic debauched diaries from time to time why...?

After all as the writer there not turning me on .
but I do know they turn on some of the kinky girls on here .
so I'm doing something that I get no sexual pleasure from but I know it turns on some women who read them that fact gives me a sexual kick a small sexual kick.

Which kind of proves my point about being a true dominant  don't you think ....?